While being a florist, funerals are a big part of my business. Which makes me sad.. The clients that I deals with are grief stricken and I usually cry right along with them, when they share apart of their loved ones life with me. When I deliver the flowers to the funeral parlors I am so grateful when they have an attendant that will take them to the room for me. There are the times that I have to deliver while everyone, family and friends and are present. I can hear bits of conversations of reunions and that type of stuff. Which just drives home, how important it is, to show the ones we LOVE ,that we actually do love and care for them while we can...
When I look around the room I can see collages of their departed loved one all peppered threw out the room. These images really stay with me. I wish I could distance myself a bit. But then I would have to be an entirely a different person.
Just recently a family I delivered to lost their 24 year old son. They lived in a big beautiful home and seemed to have it all. Nice house, cars, family and friends. Then the absolutely worse thing possible happened... A Mother and Father lost their Son. Just as life was really beginning to start for him. I too have children close in age.. I could not fathom their cruel and tragic loss. I wonder if there is anything that anyone could say or do to help console this family. I feel so bad for them and helpless at the same time.
We all touch each others lives for a reason whether we know it or not. Lets try to be kinder.
Kindness is a language the deaf can hear.. And the mute can speak.